Its really funny what anger does to people. We lash out, blame others, makes matter worse. Im pretty sure everybody has gone through this phase. I guess for many of us we do not know how to handle our anger! Many of us like to hide our anger in order for others not worry about us. Sheesh!!! I am one of those people! I do not like it when people worry about me! But hiding these emotions is no bueno! Not sharing your problems makes things more difficult to solve! Whenever there is a problem between the two resolve it as soon as possible..no more then twenty-four hours..no I do not mean right after the argument….give yourself sometime to think about what started the situation and find out ways to fix it! If you wait more than a day to resolve it, you both will suffer! Having negative thoughts and blaming the other person for the problems will bring your emotions in a different state. You want your mind to be open! Away from clouded with all these poisons that can change the way you think.

Heres a quote from a book I am reading:

“It is wrong to think that if the other person does not change or improve, then nothing can be improved. There are always ways to create more joy, peace, and harmony, and you have to access to them. The way you walk, the way you breathe, the way you smile, the way you react, all of this is very important. You must begin with this.”

I have always helping for my friends and family, and I was wrong about losing hope when I wrote my first post! I should never give up on people that needs me to help them through their life. I just need to be more positive about myself and to never stop losing myself in a losing game.

There is one regret that I wrote on my first post. Talking about my friend who I care for dearly. After that incident on Monday, there was sooo much anger towards her that I wanted to yell at her. Gladly I didn’t. I realized now when you say something unkind or do something in retaliation, your anger increases. Making the other person suffer and they try to say something unkind to you too!!! Karma!!! And when that climaxes, in the end the both of you do not learn anything from it. Punishing each other makes the situation worse. Yea, I will admit I might have caused the problem about doing this intervention since I had soooo much to say and that I could not hold it inside of me anymore. I just wished I had talked to this person when I gave this person a ride back the next morning. And I hope this person would forgive me for all this punishment I have given them this week. Also, be willing to be patient for me to find myself and be willing to bring me back to their life as their old friend who has been there for them for 10 years with a clearer mind! I want to apologize to you personally right now but all this will have to wait. Let’s just hope it won’t be awkward for the both of us when I come back! haha